Druncdragon on relationships
Posted on August 26, 2008
Is it just me? or is finding a significant other to share your life with a constant garden…. in need of uncanny full time upkeep,daily maintenance, and subject to sporadic changes without the slightest of omens.The lustful nature of man(a broad term;women are included) has never changed.Sex for pleasure and romantic companionship are among(or should be included included to) the basic human needs along w/ food clothing and shelter.Yet finding this somewhat rarely attainable plain of existence often proves to be a goal seldom realized by the contentment longing Joe Punchclock Six-pack Smith that has become the common mainstream statistic of contemporary American culture.”I’ll take what I can get” I often hear.We are never satisfied (at least I’m not) with someone that thinks the world of us,and when we find those feelings for another…..it’s disheartening when those emotions are not reciprocated….at least not at length.
There are exceptions to every truth,so feel free to elaborate.
“Contentment,the divine for which all men long”….Original
Comments
I totally agree with you. It seems like everytime something good is going on, something bad happens. There is no real happiness, and it is sad. I envy those with a great relationship with little fighting. However, it seems everytime I am in a relatiionship there is gray area and I want everything in back and white. It suck for sure but reality seems to tell us that only some of us are made for relationships and other are left for solitude.
When I found myself looking for a relationship I had almost always found one, problem was it was only a night or two long, then some broad had got to me somehow then I didn’t care for a couple months, I just wanted to be a player. Which is all fine and dandy but if you are a half ass lookin drunk like me it’s kind of hard to be a full time player.
Didn’t care though, I had porn on my computer and I got lucky a couple times a month and nothing lasted, then one night it hit me in the face and I didn’t even realize it until further along … that she is for me and she is my babys mama. It took me awhile to soak in that she was the one for me but it happened and no matter how much I trained my brain to think ‘fuck’em n leave’em’, it didn’t go through and thank god I stepped up and committed fully for the first time in my life.
Well it is weird. I was with this guy for a couple months and I thought that maybe he was “the one” but it seemed like all the little things in a relationship he blew them up and out of proportion. I was so confused and annoyed. The the other day he broke up with my because he deleted me from gay myspace and I got pissed, he did it out of no where. I was like wtf. but i wrote a pretty nasty bulletin about him, he found out, and now he won’t accept any apologies.